19 July 2012

Rape jokes and feminists

Offensive comedian Daniel Tosh makes a rape joke and a bunch of women get their panties in a bunch.
It's really easy to believe that "nothing is sacred" when the sanctity of your body and your freedom are never legitimately threatened.
Anyone who believes that has never dropped the soap in a shower, or experienced the helplessness of being surrounded by a bunch of other boys, teens, or men looking to give you a beat down.  Normal people don't become comedians because they had such a healthy childhood.  Sometimes nothing is sacred not because of someone is an entitled prick but because there truly is nothing sacred in a war zone.  Some things are too big and crushing to feel or face without some dark humor.
This isn't a joke about women getting raped—it's a joke about the way that rape culture, which includes rape jokes,makes women feel
Get that guys, you are a part of "rape culture."  What the fuck does that even mean?  I'm pretty sure there are no secret meetings where those of us with a penis sit around smoking cigars and admiring the iconic art, architecture, and literature of "rape culture."  Maybe "rape culture" happened sometime after the Minoan culture?  Maybe Clovis was the real beginning of "rape culture."  Or more likely "rape culture" is a fucking figment of some idiotic bitch who buys into "feminist culture" bullshit.  You can quote me on that one.

You think men don't understand violation?  Allow me to share my favorite joke on the matter.

"A deployment is kinda like prison sex, you didn't ask for it, don't want it, just eventually get used to it."  Is it funny?  Or is it just an observation on the amount of fucking abuse people can take and still find a new normal?

And as far as making women feel when we talk about rape?  A surprisingly high number of women have rape fantasies http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/all-about-sex/201001/womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean  So the thought of being raped is a lot like a rape joke, it depends on the person committing the act and the person on the receiving end.

I guess that since some women are physically smaller and weaker than men that they feel because most men are bigger and stronger that we are somehow fearless and blessed by "the patriarchy" with advantages they were never even given the opportunity to have.

Here is the secret ladies, there are no free rides.  The whims of fate happen to everyone, but there are some things that are never going to be equal.  I don't bleed once a month or have the ability to breastfeed an infant.  I just can't do it and I'll never be able to experience that part of the human condition.  No amount of surgery can change that aspect of my biology.  My testosterone production makes me bigger, stronger, and more aggressive.  It means I excel at things that require competition and learning to be a team player is a lot harder for me than for a lot of you.  Women will fucking gang up on a man in a heartbeat, and they will turn on each other faster than a pack of rabid hyenas.  Men may be the fighters, but women are positively vicious in their own way. 

I can't speak for Daniel Tosh, the man may be the ultimate male pig.  On the other hand, even in all girl culture there are women who prey upon women.  http://www.amazon.com/Female-Chauvinist-Pigs-Raunch-Culture/dp/0743284283  Feminists need to stop looking at all men as predators, and all women as victims.  I've known too many men victimized by women in the legal and social circles to have any sympathy for the feminist movement anymore.

7 comments:

PioneerPreppy said...

Oh it isn't the rape act that gets them. Feminism is all about female options. They want to always have plenty of options in every life situation. By having draconian anti-male rape laws it gives them plenty of options to declare sexual mistakes as "Rape" to throw their own rape lifeline when they get caught doing something they shouldn't etc. etc. etc.

Hell they even use it to get more women in the country as immigrants.

Kang said...

Holy Sh!t, can I get an Amen!?

Kang
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indyjones said...

People without talent use the race or rape card to get a leg up on others who have talent.

Galt-in-Da-Box said...

Dead square on...especially with MIZZ HITLERy and her gun-grabbing bullshit.
BTW, those 300# Khazakh cows running the femiNazi movement NEVER have to worry about any sane man raping them, so they have to constantly be looking for it where it is not.

RegT said...

F*ck the feminists. When they remain silent about the abuse, rape, and murder of so many women in the muslim countries, they have lost every single bit of any validity they might have otherwise had (which wasn't much to start with).

All those silent feminists should be held down and made to experience what female infants and small children have to go through to "satisfy" the filthy insanity that is Islam. Yeah, I'm talking genital mutilation per the Qur'an.

I won't even get into the rape of six-nine year old girls whom the mf'ing imams declare old enough to penetrate.

Dedicated_Dad said...

I won't touch the topics others have already covered so well - but I must point out a couple of things nobody else mentioned...

First, there are more men raped in our prisons every day than on our streets. Why is it "rape jokes" are funny when MEN are the victims?
(Hint: They're NOT. If rape isn't funny, it's NEVER funny. Period.)

While I'm at it, women who would have an absolute conniption if anyone joked that it's OK for a husband to hit his wife will laugh hysterically when a sitcom wife slaps her husband, or worse yet kicks him in the 'nads.

Just TRY to imagine a sitcom laugh-track playing behind a man kicking a woman in the crotch... Can't do it, can you? There's a reason for that...

Like rape, DV is also never funny.

Lastly, while I would never dream of minimizing the trauma of rape, the reality is that *GENERALLY SPEAKING*, said trauma is primarily psychological.

We men experience trauma too - in fact the pain of losing a job (for example) has been statistically shown to cause an equivalent psychological trauma to men - yet we don't have a "crisis center" on every corner, we're expected to "suck it up and move on."

The TRUTH is that there are numerous benefits to that philosophy - it's one of the reasons we men seem to be "emotionally stronger" than women.

AM said...

Dedicated Dad,

Rape itself is not funny, it is a violation of someones humanity. On the other hand, I believe that humor is how we look at things too serious to take seriously. It may be inappropriate humor, but it is humor.

The oldest known riddle joke is this, "What hangs about a mans thigh and gets put in the same hole repeatedly?" The answer is "a key"

We've been making fun of sex and violence (slapstick) since humanity came down from the trees. Call it an evolutionary coping method.