twilight? never saw it, never will.Now, first off, "spending some time in the Bible" is what brought me to opinion I hold, you sanctimonious asshat. In the beginning God created woman to be with man. God made woman's form pleasing to man. The word "desire" is synonymous with "lust" but doesn't bring up negative connotations. So if a man desires a woman then he is exactly as God created him to be. The Bible is quite clear that a wife's body is the property of the husband. Not very liberating is it? If you want a biblical marriage you are about 2000 years and one women's rights movement too late.
Spend some time in the Bible and you will see that porn is just lust fulfillment and it's a sin.
How about this: a man wants to eat steak every night but all he gets is hot dogs, so he goes out and finds a woman who will cook him steak. Too bad he doesn't provide his wife with the steak to cook, he only brings home hot dogs and gets mad at her for not cooking up some steak. THAT makes about as much sense as you saying he has to use porn.
Be a man and provide for your family and then enjoy all they give back to you. Or be happy with your hot dogs.
Let me explain this in simple words so Anonymous can follow. Relationships are about giving something up to get something in return. A relationship is not a Man going to work, coming home, cooking dinner, giving his wife a foot massage, reading her poetry while pouring her wine, and then being satisfied with a quicky where she lays there looking bored because she just doesn't feel into it that night. A husband may be a role of servitude, but it is not the role of a servant. Accepting that your spouses needs matter is the first step in fulfilling those needs. Any man who thinks that his wife is a servant is sorely deluded. Narcissists believe other people are there only to be used by the Narcissist, and that is not healthy. Anyone wonder why a certain someone is famous for taking vacations that leaves her husband behind?
If a woman is unhappy in her relationship the key to fixing that problem isn't to cut off her husbands number one source of love and somehow hope he magically develops mind reading skills to figure out what the fuck is the matter. Relationships take work, engagement, not disengagement. When one party disengages that leaves two people saying "I don't trust you to fulfill my needs." And when two people don't trust each other to fulfill each other, they decide to fulfill their needs on their own. She'll get her emotional connection from her friends and romance novels, and he'll get his physical needs fulfilled from porn.
"Be a man provide for your family and enjoy all they give back to you" sounds suspiciously like "Be exploited and like it you jackass." That isn't being a leader, that isn't taking responsibility for yourself, that is choosing to be a stupid victim. Why would any individual do that to themselves?
And seriously, to those that think that men don't need porn, damn straight. We don't need PlayStations either. Hell we don't need jobs, don't need families, don't need physical possessions or relationships. But it ain't much of a life. The sales of porn and PlayStations tell us that more men than not consider sex and distraction a key ingredient in their well being.